Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Successful Women Think Differently: 9 Habits to Make You Happier, Healthier & More Resilient by Valorie Burton / 199 pages. Read in 15 days
This book is not only a quick
read but also a smart read. In this book, you can learn more about yourself as
a woman. The chapters in this book were actually labeled as habits. Clever idea
by the author! In the introduction, you can find a comparison chart titled “Successful
Women verses Unsuccessful Women” and what to expect from the stories you will
read in the book. Those stories will come from women who have been in
situations every other woman have found themselves stuck in when it comes to
finding happiness and success. The most surprising thing is that these women
express their happiness for where their life is currently. Next you will find a
chapter titled “Seven Key Decisions” that women should apply to their thinking while
reading this book. Outside of the introduction and conclusion, you will find
nine habits that will divulge into your psyche and take your thinking to
another level. You can find habits’ teaching women how to believe in
themselves, get off the hedonic treadmill, letting go of fixing your
weaknesses, preparing for life battles, toning down your overabundance of
wanting it all right away, and how to collaborate as a successful woman. This
book also includes a few bible quotes that can help to strengthen your
spiritual thinking as well. At the end of the book you can also find a coaching
guide that gives 8 tips on how to become healthier and happier than you have
ever been.
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Game Over by Winter Ramos / 248 pages. Read in 36 days via Nook
This book
can be considered a “tell-all” like every other girl’s book in the world of
love and hip hop but it wasn't It was a story that kept getting interesting by
the sections. The way Winter decided to tell her story was not by blasting
those she slept with in the industry but more by telling how she honestly met
these hip-hop moguls and became a natural breed of the hip-hop game. At the age
of 16, Winter was a former house member of the now infamous “JR Mafia House” a
place where you can see upcoming artist just hanging out on a daily basis. This
house was located on Atlantic and Saint James in the heart of Bed-Stuy,
Brooklyn, NY and it became a very popular for some of the most famous artists like
“Biggie, Lil Kim, Faith Evans, Foxy Brown, and Lil Cease”. Winter
started off with trips and how she met so many people. Early in the book she
revealed her true love for a local guy from around her way name Smiley. Smiley
gave her the world and she looked forward to everything he did for her because
she never loved anyone else like him. When she lost him, her world and meaning
behind love became cold, like her name WINTER. As expressed through many
chapters in the book, Winter never set out to date and love every person she
met in the entertainment industry. However she did what most women do when the
opportunity arises, she slept with them but after loosing Smiley, she was not
into finding love during most of these sexcapades. Although she became well known
throughout the hip-hop industry and have admitted to sleeping with Swizz Beats,
Young Berg, Damon Dash, Rafer Alston, Ja Rule, Slim Thug, Jadakiss, Dorrell
Wright, and more…she made it clear that she did not sleep with everyone that crossed
her path. She even revealed how there was a time when Jay Z was interested in
her but she chose Damon over him and admitted in her book that she always felt
like she chose the wrong one and she could have been “The Beyonce” in Jay’s life
now.
Besides spilling
the juice on her personal relationships, Winter also went into details
explaining how rocky her business relationship was with the rapper Fabulous.
She revealed things from how he only paid her 300.00 a week, even when his
career skyrocketed to the highest it had ever been to how she walked out on him
during a video shoot due to some disagreement about him not bringing a change of
clothes which ended their business relationship. The book ended with the
details of her shaky relationship with Jadakiss and how he was not in support
of her doing Love and Hip-Hop.
This book
may be pegged as the next “tell-all” of a vixen but the difference is Winter
had a real styling career and has been able to maintain that today. You can
find her now working with on movie sets as a stylist. Her story will change
your mind about her intentions for sure!
Thursday, July 25, 2013
Real Wifeys: On the Grind by Meesha Mink / 257 pages. Read in 30 days
Kaeyla
Dennis was born into poverty. All her life she dealt with being broke, wearing raggedy
clothes and being the laughing stock at her school. When her mother left her
with her grandmother, Mama Bit, life was far better than it was before but she
still found herself to be poor, hungry, wearing old/torn clothes and shoes. There
were times when she would have to avoid going to school by playing sick because
of being teased or running into girls that talked about her at the bust stop in
fear of her life. So the day she met Damion “Dyme” Gunners, 23 years her
senior, her life changed and her name too. She became Goldie to him and many
others for her gold highlights and eyes. Dyme became her world and for six
years he laced her with everything she never believed she would have, including
a car, clothes, jewels and a rent-free apartment in the same projects as Mama
Bit’s. Mama Bit has been pissed when she first learned of the idea but now that
she has passed on, Kaeyla somehow still feels that she disappointed her
grandmother by sleeping with a married man and dropping out of school. Although
Goldie dropped out of school, she still feels that she is doing way better than
most 22 year olds. Through the six years she has been with Dyme, he has always
promised Goldie that he would leave his wife and marry her and she believed
this story for as long as she could until Dyme’s wife rolled up to her crib to prove
otherwise. Dyme had just got finished proposing to Goldie and while they were
in the middle of their love making session in her apartment, his wife Freida was
honking the horn & screaming her husband’s name downstairs putting on a
show in the middle of the winter in front of everyone in Goldie’s projects. With
the snow on the ground, it did not stop Goldie from going out there with no
shoes on to show her new engagement ring off. She thought finally this is the
time to show Freida that Dyme is now her fiancé! Goldie figured just as Dyme
was serious about saying he was leaving his wife for good this time, Goldie was
serious too about making sure it happened with showing proof of her engagement
ring. However, things took a turn when Dyme played the victim and decided to
take his wife’s side and deny everything they had been through in the past few
minutes to six years, the engagement, two abortions, etc… Goldie was pissed and
decided to charged Dyme from the back, he immediately threw her off his back
and she fell into the snow for everyone to see and laugh at while Dyme walked
away with his wife.
After a few
weeks of depression, Goldie decided to hustle at whatever she could. She became
the “go-to” girl for movies, clothes, purses, CD’s, everything you can name.
That lasted until a bad deal caused her partner to get arrested. Back at square
one with all her money in the recent deal gone, she had to find yet another
solution because she was determined not to go back to Dyme. She managed to do a
few odd jobs but nothing lasted. Goldie eventually became successful again with
starting a stripping business but things got even better for her when she was given
the opportunity to take a few of her high end strippers on tour with her to do
open acts for the rapper, Make$. But this too was over before it really got
started and Goldie was violated but like all abused women, she still came out
on top living in a high rise apartment in a new city. This book is one story
you will always remember!
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
Ask Wendy by Wendy Williams / 287 pages.
Wendy
Williams is a woman who holds nothing back! She speaks what she feels and she feels
what she speaks! She is admired by many and hated by a few! Regardless she
gives her fans what they look for on her daily talk show called “The Wendy
Williams Show”. What her fans love the most are her true answers that are
valued by her guests. Wendy can be asked anything and she will give it to you
straight with no chaser. In this book, she enjoys answering her fans questions.
Since there is no time limit on how much can be said in a few minutes, she
takes time to allow her fans to ask just about anything! This book has been
dubbed as a place where “No question is off-limits and no situation is too
outrageous for her to take on”. Although some advice can he hard for those
asking the questions to hear, she tells it to them the realest way she can
without hurting their feelings. Wendy wanted to create something that could
give her fans and readers advice to cover any dramatic situation everyone goes
through. For example, some questions asked in the book are: “My husband is
always commenting on how hot the babysitter is. Should I be worried?” or “Should
You Forgive A Cheater?” Each chapter begins with Wendy’s personal story behind
the chapter title. Each chapter includes the following but in different orders,
following Wendy’s personal story, then it goes into a few questions from the
fans with similar situations, the “Hot Topic” section where you can review other
questions asked on the show; a “How You Doin” Quiz to help you remember points
from that particular chapter and the answers to the quiz and an explanation for
each answer. Lastly, there is “On No, He Didn’t” or a “Oh No, She Didn’t section
and Wendy’s Final Word to make sure her audience and readers are understanding everything
they could about that particular question and chapter.
This book
has 13 chapters and a heartwarming conclusion to her readers. Her Chapter Titles
vary from “Girlfriend/Kid/Family/Work Drama, Mama Drama to Between the Sheets
Drama”. In her conclusion she explains that if everyone who reads her book does
not agree with her, then don’t hate her because of that, she is simply just a
woman from New Jersey who is not perfect. This book is good for anyone looking
for answers to a lot of life questions!
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Harlem On Lock by Karen Williams / 249 pages. Read in 48 days
This book
was the best of the year thus far. Karen Williams knew what she was doing when
she created yet another good read. The book was one that took days to read over
and over because it was too graphic to be a quick read. There were days when
the graphics was too real that a break was needed. This book introduces Harlem,
a young 17 year old beauty who knows nothing but hard times. From the day she
was born in Harlem New York her luck was shot. Things really got rough when she
moved three days after she was born to California. She had no idea what her
life was up against. From the moment they settled outside of Los Angeles in the
projects, the drama began. Her mom Aja was a very talented jazz singer but her
addiction to heroin won her life over. Her dad Earl wasn't any better. Their
addiction has put Harlem in the hot seat many days and she was left to fend for
herself. There were times when she would be forced to use her hands to please
her landlord to keep them from getting kicked out. She even had to strip to pay
back her parents debts to local dealers. Once her mother was lost her battle to
heroin, her father took things to another level by raping her, then pinning her
down to a bed for weeks while he charged the local’s to come in and have their
way with her. This went on until the head honcho in the drug world, named Chief
found out and took Harlem in for herself as his main boo. He started out showing
that he wanted the best for her but eventually, power and drugs got the best of
him and he begin to also take advantage and embarrass Harlem in front of everyone
he knew. Chief tried his hardest to ruin Harlem and give her more hell than she
was born into with her own parents. This lasted for years until Harlem finally
stood up to Chief and made him pay for the misery with his life. In the end,
Harlem walked away with her true love and learning about her real father.
Harlem On
Lock was definitely a fulfilling read and worth taking the time to read!
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